Why negative comments are positive
Posted by Mark White, Blog Consultant in Better Client Relationships , Blogging for Small Businesses , Corporate Blogging , Customer Feedback
An area where companies often voice their concerns as we discuss setting up their own blog is that of negative feedback. They worry that people will use the comments section of their blog to express their dissatisfaction with the company and their products or services. Theyre also keen to understand how best to deal with them.
From a personal point of view, I totally understand this concern. As a rule, we dislike negative comments being made about us thats just natural – and companies and company bloggers are no different. Theres an instinctive reaction when we receive anything other than glowing praise for something we’ve written: for the individual blogger, there’s personal pride at stake; for businesses, there’s the concern that it will reflect badly on their organisation and alienate customers or prospects who see it.
So, for some, the gut reaction is to suppress it … moderate it out … pretend it never happened. Better still, don’t allow anyone to comment! That will also take away the guilt factor of knowing that the comment was made but that you haven’t approved it!
Why this really isn’t an option
The trouble is that this is the digital equivalent of sticking your head in the sand or perhaps jabbing your fingers in your ears and shouting La la la very loudly. Conjures up a faintly ridiculous image? Well, in social media terms, its equally ridiculous, Im afraid. Why? Because the person who wanted to complain on your blog will still do so, they will just go elsewhere … generally somewhere where you won’t have the chance to respond and engage with them.
So whats the alternative? Well, instead, give people the chance to raise the issue on your blog let them vent their frustration. And, in the process, you’ll be giving yourself the chance to answer their concerns.
For me, there are three key reasons why I’d want to do that and they’re nothing to do with blogging and everything to do with business:
- Firstly, it costs much more, both in terms of time and money, to find new clients than it does to keep your current ones.
- Secondly, customers with negative experiences are more likely to tell people about them than customers with positive experiences. However, customers who have had a negative experience which has been solved tend to be the most vocal;
- Thirdly, it costs more to fix a problem than to prevent it in the first place.
By responding and resolving their issues, we have the chance not only to keep them as a customer but possibly turn them into an advocate for your company again. In any case, by openly allowing the criticisms and answering them, you are more likely to gain respect in the eyes of other readers than lose it.
Feedback has other benefits
You may also be receiving valuable feedback which could help improve an aspect of your company’s activities and fix a problem which already exists. Without this feedback, you could remain blissfully unaware of an issue which is costing you clients who have decided not to complain but rather “vote with their feet” and look for another supplier.
Certainly you need to make sure that the comments comply with any guidelines that you have in place – and in a corporate blog, they should exist – but those should cover areas such as abusive or racist language rather than constructive criticism. So rather than suppressing negative comments, you should encourage comments and feedback of all types. While it might sometimes seem a painful process in the short-term, the long-term benefits will prove far more valuable.

























December 2nd, 2008 at 5:32 pm
This struck a chord with me – I recently had someone leave a comment on my blog containing the ‘f’ word numerous times and some personal insults. It really upset me. I didn’t approve the comment but tried to address the sentiment in an addendum to the article. If people don’t insult you and are reasonable in their objections, I don’t see any reason for not publishing their negative comments.
December 2nd, 2008 at 9:00 pm
@Liz I’m sorry to hear that – personal insults are never ever acceptable and, as I know you realise, these are not the sort of comments that I was referring to. Why people take the attitude that you have experienced I really don’t know. I hope that it’s something you’ll be able to leave behind quickly and be able to focus on all the positive things that your blog brings out.
December 4th, 2008 at 1:08 pm
Spot on Mark
Customer comments are golden, whatever the content.
For anyone else though, is should be a privilege not a right, and common courtesy is a minimum requirement.
Thank you.
Matt
December 8th, 2008 at 6:31 pm
Anyone who’s blogged long enough will have encountered at least one really bad exchange of words with someone who’s unhappy for whatever I reason.
On one occasion, I was drawn in when the guy lost the argument and started making personal and abusive comments.
I deleted all of the comments, sat back and thought about what had just happened.
Mark is right; you can turn some negative comments into a plus, certainly if you can articulate your views, and employ some deft diplomacy to address the points of the comment.
A simple a very effective trick is to not answer straight away. Read the comment, think about it, let the sting subside and then reply.
Also, let someone else read the comment and offer their views, too.
Good advice, Mark…
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December 16th, 2008 at 2:31 pm
This is such an interesting area, and one I always ask my clients to challenge their beliefs.
With one consumer-facing client, we put together a weekly email of all feedback that has been received during the week through different channels. And I do mean all, including the negative, harsh comments, alongside the gushing “we love you!” ones.
Every week there is also a summary of the feedback we can action (ie. 5 ppl asked for this feature, 15 said they liked that new one so let’s keep it, etc) which helps the team understand the impact they have on users even if they’re not directly consumer-facing (a culture I’m also trying to change. Everyone should be consumer-facing in some capacity to help remind us of who we create for)
It’s important to find a balance; build a backbone and don’t be offended by every negative comment, but avoid becoming jaded and disregarding comments as users just trying to be difficult.
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May 22nd, 2009 at 6:28 pm
I agree with matt and mark, doesnt matter what the comment is, goog or bad
June 11th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
Good article, businesses should always try to remember that negatives can be turned into positives.
Complaints handling is one of the main factors on which customers rate a business. More than 50 per cent of people say they complain and those complaints are often to organisations they actually like. A well-handled complaint can improve a customers perception of your business.
The Marketing Donut has some good tips on customer contact and handling complaints – http://bit.ly/NvINZ
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November 2nd, 2010 at 10:22 pm
Negative comments give you feedback also, you can learn from them. As a virtual sales person that is what i do.